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Baking in memory or merit

How to dedicate a bake for a yahrzeit, shloshim, refuah, shidduch or zechus.

1 minute read · October 2026

Many women gather to bake in someone’s memory or merit: for a yahrzeit or shloshim, for a refuah shleimah, for a shidduch, or for a zechus. Some gather forty, a cherished custom, but a circle of any size is meaningful.

Set it up

On the day

Invite each woman to hold the name in mind while she separates challah.

Afterward

Consider sending loaves to the family, a shul kiddush or a food program.

Sample invitation

Join me in baking challah in the merit of [Name] bas/ben [Mother’s name]. We would love for as many women as possible to join. Sign up here: [link]. Even if you cannot bake with us live, you can bake from your own kitchen.

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